At some point, many of us decide (conscious or not) to partner with death. We believe our hearts are too sick, too confusing, too complicated. Maybe someone hurt us, abused us, neglected us, or ignored us so we use pain to justify silencing our hearts and moving into our heads. After all, its safer in the shrink’s office than in the wild landscape of an abandoned heart. When we do this we cut off our oxygen supply, and we go into survival mode.

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